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BLOG 17 A LESSON IN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

                    A THANKSGIVING GIFT

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 I have found that most men find it difficult to accept acknowledgement. It seems to be more important to ignore our accomplishments for the “greater good”. Someone else was more deserving or had accomplished a greater feat. I felt It was my duty as a leader to acknowledge men for their accomplishments.

 Men of Fire was a heart centered men’s support group I had envisioned, co-created and led for 18 years.. Other than a few short timers the circle had had only 22 regular members. Now it was time for the completion ceremony. We gathered on the mountain for our closing circle and passed the truth stick.

 Speaking last I took my time to make eye contact with each man and speak from my heart acknowledging each one as an exceptional man. When I was done I was tapped on the shoulder by the man on my left and told that I had forgotten someone. Taken aback I asked who!?  The man said yourself. “You too are an exceptional man”. I have never forgotten that moment. It was a lesson and a gift that I have carried with me since.

 In my groups I now have each man acknowledge himself for something he has done during the week. He may also acknowledge others in the circle. In the past I had ignored myself for the sake of others because I believed that was my duty.

 Since that day I have included myself in the acknowledgement process and let the acknowledgements in when they are given.

How can one fully lead by example if he cannot mention and own his accomplishments. Not from a place of ego but rather by example.

 The Hill has been an open space to practice letting love in the giving as well as receiving acknowledgement.

 Happy Thanksgiving. May you acknowledge yourself in some way today and every day.

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